Comments for Hey Blunder Woman

Comment on Application to Date Tanya — Revisited by admin

admin — Sun, 05 Sep 2010 13:39:54 +0000

I hear you, K. I’m learning that what’s important to me…is important. I’m through with saying “Oh, I guess it doesn’t matter” because it does. Just like you need a guy who likes dogs because your little doggies are a big part of your life. And I need a guy who…well….I’m going to sit down and make a list, because I want a whole lot more than one thing. And I’m totally okay with that.

Comment on Application to Date Tanya — Revisited by k1973

k1973 — Sat, 04 Sep 2010 16:51:21 +0000

I’m learning what is right for one person isn’t right for another person. is it just the luck of the draw? what one person is willing to put up with, while another may find that intolerable? I had an ex – (very mean man, wish i could see karma kick his arse, but that’s another story) who could not handle seeing dog hair on me. I have 2 boxers. try to avoid not getting hair on you. it’s difficult.

I don’t know. all I know is I’m still searching – searching for someone who can handle me having some dog hair, or handle my quirks and dare I say neurosis.

meanwhile….I’m going to snuggle my doggies. the spoiled beasts they are.

Comment on How do you forgive when you’re an angry Mofo? by Jim Bradshaw

Jim Bradshaw — Thu, 02 Sep 2010 13:22:48 +0000

Wow…that was looking into the Wayback Machine…21 years into the past and it was exactly that way! Especially the vacation scheduling that new new hubby and I could work out but there was no way the ex and I could git ‘er done. Creepier than the tunnels at the Hospital…

Comment on How do you forgive when you’re an angry Mofo? by abby

abby — Thu, 02 Sep 2010 12:32:37 +0000

Your words are amazing. This is truly your medium to work through issues. You are going to get there, I have no doubt. Keep thinking, processing and speaking through your beautiful written words, it is working!!

Comment on How do you forgive when you’re an angry Mofo? by suzanna ross

suzanna ross — Wed, 01 Sep 2010 23:43:56 +0000

you’re on the right track, T. my grandmother used to say…”if you’re mad…they are winning”.

Comment on How do you forgive when you’re an angry Mofo? by COLMORIAIN

COLMORIAIN — Wed, 01 Sep 2010 14:11:04 +0000

Very insightful blog but I feel real ‘forgiveness’ will only be possible when it is combined with a genuine new reinforced and rebuilt self esteem after your obvious and justified sense of personal betrayal at the circumstances of your marriage break up; until then I feel you may be dealing defensively and emotionally with the necessary symptoms of a shared child minding requirement rather than being able to provide an objective ‘moral’ detachment and self belief to any interpersonal relationships with either your ex or his wife; Thanks for sharing and good luck as you deserve better.

Comment on How do you forgive when you’re an angry Mofo? by aloha.taboo

aloha.taboo — Wed, 01 Sep 2010 14:10:51 +0000

Got your back.

Comment on How do you forgive when you’re an angry Mofo? by Bettie

Bettie — Wed, 01 Sep 2010 13:52:51 +0000

Great post Tanya. Maybe someone will post here with a magic answer (I’ll be checking back), but unfortunately it won’t be me. This is one area that I struggle so hard with and I DO give it over to a higher power! Something to think about I guess….it’s good that you at least recognize that it’s happening and are off to a good start with it. Better than I have done.

Comment on TUNNEL VISION–Chapter 9–Planning by Kim McNiel Smith

Kim McNiel Smith — Thu, 26 Aug 2010 06:01:12 +0000

When I first started this one, I was a bit confused by the characters, but figured it out as the story went along. Curious to see wat happens with Ama at the house, but also that Dr. Kinney handed out some serious ‘treatment’ for her family in the tunnel-what are they going to do to him for taking her? Hmmm…

Comment on New York Day 3: Toothzilla by Dana

Dana — Mon, 23 Aug 2010 20:00:47 +0000

You can totally see the pain on your eyes!!! I am so sorry Tanya!!!! I also didn’t look at the swollen part of your jaw until instructed but seriously I hope things go well at the Dr. and you can get that fixed up!