Chapter 6

Changes to your ad will be reviewed!

  

 Julie watched the video again. 

She could not believe it. 

Did she do that? No. She didn’t. Wait. Maybe she…She remembered her epiphany about socks and men. She remembered writing the ad and then thinking it worked better as a script. She remembered drinking a glass or two of wine to gain the courage to push the submit button. And now she was vaguely seeing herself setting up her cell phone and trying to figure out how to get the blasted thing to record a video. 

Julie looked down and saw that she was wearing a red negligee that she’d bought on sale at Victoria’s Secret a year ago. Eve told her that if she felt sexy on the inside she’d emanate sexiness on the outside, so Julie bought the lingerie. She’d worn it once, for an hour or so, and waited to emanate sexiness, but the feeling she emanated was closer to itchiness as the lace chafed the inside of her thighs. And now look at her, sitting at her computer drinking wine and wearing a red teddy. She might as well be posed on the couch looking like a…

Wait! She had posed on the couch and recorded a video. And her thighs were chafing.

 Frantically Julie signed into her account and scrawled a new ad to replace the hideous fiasco of Easy Lady Requests Guy with Two Socks. Since she was now sober, or relatively so, Julie thought she could delete the video, write something a simple non-offensive ad, something that would capture who she was really looking for, and forget about last night entirely.

And what (or who) was she looking for exactly?

She was looking for someone to make Ronny jealous. That was all.

And so she wrote an ad that said the truth:

 

                        Hi there. I’m a nice, sweet down-to-earth girl

                        looking for someone to get to know over time.

                        I like reading and writing and cooking and

                        going for long walks on the beach.  I appreciate

                        fine wine, fine food, and fine conversation.

                        In five years I want to own a house and start on a family. 

God. Was Ronny right about her? Was she boring? Predictable? Was this the ad of a woman who sucked the marrow from life? Julie shrugged. Maybe it wasn’t exciting, but it was the truth…except for the part about going for long walks on the beach. She liked to read at the beach, but not walk. And she should have mentioned that she was obsessed with cooking, and not a good cook. And she should have put in there a little bit about her affection for the world of Star Trek…from the polyester 1960’s series to the dark Deep Space Nine. In Star Trek, at least, there was a code people lived by. And no one was a rock star.

She hit Edit Ad and tried to delete the video. It wouldn’t delete. She tried to post her new written ad to replace it, but something wasn’t working. Ah, the submit button. She submitted, she really did. She pressed the button. A message popped up onscreen that, if it had a voice, would no doubt have that perky cheerleader type voice she so hated:

Thank you so much!  Changes to your ad will be reviewed!

If accepted, your changes will appear in 3-5 business days.

Happy hunting! 

Three to five days? Three to five business days! Julie quickly did the calculations: it was Friday night. That meant her ad would remain as is until…Monday. Until next week!

An instant message chimed on her screen. It was Eve.  

LadyEve:            Nice video. 

Julie1976:            Oh god. You’ve seen it.

LadyEve:            Me and about 300 others.

Julie1976:            What?

LadyEve:            It’s on YouTube. How many responses you get?

 Julie1976:            I hate my life.

LadyEve:            Must be a lot.

Julie1976:             My life is a shipwreck.

LadyEve:        It’s hysterical.  My favorite part is the bit about your knockers.

Julie1976:             What if someone I know sees this?  How can I go to work with Bud knowing what I look like nearly naked and drunk off my ass?  What if I’m walking down the street and some guy gives me a sock and asks me for a quickie?  I never should have listened to you….I hate….

At that point, Julie’s cell phone rang.  She answered by completing her previous thought: “I hate my life and right now I really hate you for getting me into this.” She could hear Eve laugh on the other line. 

 “I did not get you into this. It’s all you, sweets. In fact, I warned you not to drink and operate heavy machinery.”

“I thought that meant don’t drink and drive.”

“It also means don’t drink and operate a camera. Ever. So. What’s the damage? How many emails did you get?”

 Julie moved her cursor over to her mailbox. In spite of herself, her heart did a quick skip. “One hundred seventy-eight.”

 “Holy shit, woman! You’re a movie star!”

 “Yeah.  And that’s up from only a hundred and fourteen like fifteen minutes ago!”  Julie couldn’t help but smile.  She’d never had so much attention in her life. True, it was a completely misleading ad and she probably wouldn’t want to talk to the kind of person who would respond to it, but…still. Nearly two hundred men found her interesting.  Titillating. Over the course of one night, Julie had transformed herself into a vixen. She sort of liked becoming someone she wasn’t, especially since no one online was exactly who they said they were anyway. It reminded her of her college days when she and Eve were in the Dracula Musical together. She’d been really good in that, she remembered. Eve had played Mina and Julie had been a remarkably believable maid.

            “You’re smiling aren’t you?” Eve asked. “I can tell you’re sitting there feeling all happy. I told you you’d get a response! See! Who needs Ronny?”

            Eve was right. Since she’d posted her ad, Julie hadn’t thought once of Ronny or his orgasm face or how miserable she was without him. In fact, she hadn’t thought of Ronny at all. “Come over,” Julie said. “I need you to help weed through these. This could be fun. We’ll see how many whackos are out there.” 

Chapter 5

It was nearly three in the morning and Eve sat at her laptop in her kitchen wrapped in her favorite pink silk robe. She’d given up on trying to get to sleep, and decided to check and see if Julie really did post that ad. She hadn’t gotten any emails or calls yet so she figured Julie probably hadn’t done it. Eve reached for her home-made cappuccino and took a deep sip. Of course, she thought, drinking four cups of cappuccino a day since she got her new coffee maker probably didn’t help in the sleep department. 

She moved the cursor over the screen and typed in the web address. She didn’t even have to search for Julie’s ad as it had been chosen as the member spotlight, and was featured on the first page of the website.

There was Julie: sweet, withdrawn Julie, for the entire world to see in a red negligee sprawled on her couch holding up a nearly-empty bottle of wine and what Eve recognized as a very drunken expression on her face. To others, Julie’s smoky eyes and slight smile might be misinterpreted as a come-hither-now stare. And it looked like there was a paperclip stuck to her forehead. Laughter rose within Eve and then she noticed the little sideways triangle underneath her post. A play button? Why was there a play button. Eve pressed the button and it became clear: Julie had posted her not a written ad, but she’d actually recorded one.

The Picture wobbled and there was a close-up of Julie’s cleavage, then she ran to her couch and jumped on it, her yellow robe flying like a superhero’s.  “Hey there,” Julie said in a voice that was pitched low, as if she were trying to sound sexy. “I’m Eaaaaaaasy Laaaaady and I want some socks. A two pair of socks. One two. Me…” she pointed at the screen. “You.”

Then Julie got off the couch and walked up to the screen, and said:

Look, I’m here you’re there and if you wanna

know the truth I’m tired of this being alone stuff

I don’t wannta be a lonely sock and it’s not like

I’m looking for marriage exactly but you know

what? I’m talented and smart and fairly attractive

and have killer knockers so why not come knockin

you write me and if not then forget you I’ve got

plenty of things to meet and people to do.

Julie flicked her hair, dropped her robe and the screen went black.

 Eve laughed again. This was good. Too, too good. This was exactly the sort of thing that made her love Julie: she had an astounding knack for complicating her life. 

Chapter 4 

She laughed. She cried. She was drunk.

That night, Julie logged onto CoupleMe.com and began typing in her personal ad. She considered it again. What exactly did she want? Posting for a mate was sort of like ordering a pizza. Did she want another vegetarian, or something with a little meat?

Meat, she thought. This time I want meat.

She typed. Took a sip of wine. Thought: Mmmmm. Merlot is yummy. Took another sip of wine.

What was she supposed to say? The truth? I’m lonely. I’m in love with my ex-boyfriend. I’m totally dependable and predictable, which means…I’m boring. You could feel those things, but you couldn’t write them. She sipped her wine. 

She looked at the picture of Ronny she still kept by her computer. It was her favorite shot of him on the night they met nearly five years ago. He was playing piano for his band, The Two Wets. He stood in a spotlight, head tilted up, his face pinched. It was a familiar expression to Julie since it was the same pose he struck when he had an orgasm, except without the spotlight.  

Julie toasted the picture and gulped. Usually, she’d stop at one glass, because wine tended to make her loopy, but tonight was a special night. She was in search of loopy. She poured another glass, stuck her tongue out at Ronny, and slammed his smug orgasm-face on the table. She couldn’t look at him any more especially since she hadn’t had an orgasm-face in months. 

If she were being honest, and drinking an entire bottle of wine led her to be pretty honest, Julie admitted she felt like that miscellaneous sock at the bottom of the laundry basket, the one you keep washing in hopes that its second half would eventually show up. “Thass me,” she slurred to the computer screen. “I’m a sock. A hole filled socky-sock-sock.” 

Julie tried to pick up her cell phone and call Eve but she was having trouble seeing the buttons clearly. No need. She could post this ad on her own. She didn’t need Eve to hold her hand with everything. She would post this ad!
           

She grabbed her “Semen” personal ad and began typing. Maybe she would change her ad. Cheer it up a bit, like Eve said.

She made a small change. Good. Then she thought: I’ll just erase the pottery shards and tweak it. Just tweak it a teeny, tiny bit. Tweak, tweak!

She wrote so quickly she barely knew what she was typing. Her words flew from her in a torrent. She laughed. She cried. She was drunk. She hit “submit”, and then slunk back in her chair for a very quick nap.

                                                            *

Five hours after Julie posted her ad, she awoke still sitting at her computer. There was a paperclip stuck to her forehead and a swollen mailbox brightly signifying mail. Oh my God, she muttered. She picked the paperclip off her forehead and slowly dragged the cursor over the screen. 

114 messages.

Then Julie saw what she had done. “Young Treasure Seeks Seaman on Love’s Sea” became, with the help of her computer’s thesaurus and a fourth glass of merlot: “Easy Lady Requests Guy with Two Socks.”

Worse than that, she’d posted the ad not as a written personal…but as a video.

 

I’d love to say that being in a loving and rewarding relationship with my boyfriend makes me more stable when it come to my behaviour. Well, it does to an extent, but now and then, ever so occasionally, I’ll fall off the wagon and insanity will set in once more.

They say the devil makes work for idle thumbs and that’s the only excuse I can feasibly give for why, one day, while bored at work, something strange came over me.

It all began as I innocently contemplated how well I really knew my beau. Kind of like my own Mr and Mrs Quiz:

What colour is his toothbrush? Blue.

Where was he born? Hertfordshire.

What’s his favourite book? Oh Christ, I don’t know. Noddy Goes To Toytown?

But did I actually know how his mind worked? Psychologically?

What happened next was always going to be a bad idea. But like a child who can’t resist playing with fire, I carried on anyway. Foolishly, I decided to see if I knew my boyfriend well enough to
guess his hotmail password.

With the benefit of hindsight, this could obviously be misconstrued as wanting to pry into my boyfriend’s private correspondence, but I genuinely saw it as bit of a sudoku-style challenge – if I guess the
password, I am clearly a genius!

I tried different variations. Titles of songs he liked, my name, his mum’s name, his ex-girlfriend’s (I’m not sure what I would have done if that one had actually worked). But, alas, nothing. I was just cursing my chap’s superior brain, when to my horror a message popped up announcing that the login had been suspended. Because of ‘security’ issues.

‘Shit!’ I thought. ‘I’ve broken his email!’

Panicked, I confessed my crime to my workmate Isabel.

‘You tit!’ she laughed, shaking her head.

Then I called my boyfriend and owned up. My admission was met with a deathly silence. ‘Why were you trying to hack into my email, Charlotte?’ he asked.

I noticed he’d used my full Christian name instead of ‘Charls’ or ‘my little mentalist’, which indicated I was in big trouble.

‘I don’t knoooow, I was booooored’ I whined churlishly. 

He sighed and then uttered the following mortifying sentence: ‘I’m really disappointed in you.’ Bugger. As it happened, my futile amusement had another alarming consequence.

That day I’d been wearing a 24-hour monitor which took my blood pressure every half an hour. The doctor had insisted on it, as my BP is routinely high for my age and he wanted to see how it averaged during the day. Typically, it went off, whirling and squeezing my arm, in the middle of the attempted-hacking drama. When I inspected the reading after my grovelling phone call, my blood pressure had gone through the roof.

I could have died of a heart attack. I blame the devil.

Charlotte Ward, London

author of: 

Why Am I Always The One Before The One?’ Here’s the website:

www.theonebeforetheone.co.uk

Real Blunder Woman #1

Peekaboo

So I met this really cute guy at the roller rink and he was a little older than me. We exchanged phone numbers and I was thrilled when he actually called me.

The next day he called and we chatted for quite awhile. During the conversation he asked where I lived so I told him. Then he said he was having his friend drive him over and he’d be there in a few minutes.

What?!

I wasn’t expecting that and I didn’t know how to tell him I didn’t want him to come over. He was older! and I was home alone.

So when he pulled into the driveway and rang my doorbell, I hid in the family room and peeked out the window through the bushes watching him until he gave up and went away.

When he got back home, he called me and wondered why I hadn’t been home. Ummm…. I said I had to take a cup of sugar to a neighbor or something equally as ridiculous. I didn’t have a problem with him calling or visiting again.

I don’t think I’ve ever told anyone that story before!

Andrea Dickinson
www.andreadickinson.com

Chapter 3

I’ve always wanted to be a hermaphrodite. Then I could have sex with myself.

Julie unfolded the piece of paper in front of her, smoothed out the creases and passed it to Eve. They were seated in their favorite booth near the back of the bar, huddled over the table.  “I wrote it really fast. It needs work,” Julie explained.

“Seems kinda long,” Eve said as she reached for her reading glasses from her purse.

“Yeah, well, there’s no real word limit online. Glory of technology, I guess. Be honest, Eve. Should I really do this?”

“You said you wanted to do something crazy. Though, I have to admit, online dating doesn’t sound all that wild to me, although it was wild like in 1994. Now everyone does it. I was sort of thinking you were going to do something wild and drastic like a sex change or something.” 

“Yes,” Julie agreed. “I’ve always wanted to be a hermaphrodite. Then I could have sex with myself. You want some more cake?”

“Of course. So with this ad you want, what? True love?”

“No. No! I was thinking…maybe I want dating practice or something. I want to experiment with being crazy. I guess at the heart of it, maybe I just want to get over Ronny, or back at Ronny, or something, and I want to do it as quickly as possible. I can’t take any more of his postcards. I want to have postcards of my own! I thought…I don’t know. It’s stupid.” She reached for the paper and crinkled it in her palm.

“Give me that!” Eve said. “It isn’t stupid at all. What I meant was that when you said you wanted to do something spontaneous I thought you were going to go on a trip to Europe or have a radical make-over. But online dating is good. It’s a start. Give me your ad. And the cake.” She read:    

         Young Treasure Seeks Seaman on Love’s Sea

            When I was young, I collected broken pottery shards

            that had washed up on the beach. Each one, I knew,

            was from a shipwreck. In my palm, a tiny piece of

            white plate became the last dinner of a couple in love.

            A brown half of a beer stein with edges smoothed by

            sand and time became a sailor’s last drink just as the

            swell of the lake surged and took him over. These

            collected pieces of plates and bowls from the last

            moments in people’s lives proved to me that all things

            end: childhood, careers, and yes, even love. I am

            resigned to this reality. Still, I am looking to date.

            Casually. If you are interested, here I wait, at the

            bottom of the sea, for you to find me and uncover me.

Eve wound a finger in a lock of her honey hair. “Okay, Young Treasure Seeks Seaman on Love’s Sea. That’s catchy.”

Julie couldn’t tell if Eve was emotionally affected by the impact of her personal ad, or if she had something stuck in her teeth. “Is it all right?” Julie asked again. “Oh, you hate it, don’t you? I sound boring, don’t I? Oh, forget it!” Julie took a huge bite of her sandwich. Her eyes were burning with tears.

“I don’t hate it. Not at all. It’s just…a little sad.  It sort of makes it sound like your life is a shipwreck.”

“Exactly!” said Julie emphatically. “A complete and utter shipwreck.”

 “Let me read it again,” Eve said. Julie watched her intently, looking for any reaction from her, good or bad.

She read it again, coughed, set the paper aside, and quickly downed her glass of water. “Julie…Look,” Eve continued. “I love you. To pieces, and anything I can do to help get Ronny out of your system, I’ll do. But you say here Young Treasure Seeks Seaman. It sort of looks like you misspelled ‘semen’, like this is a personal ad for semen.”

Julie gasped. “Eek! No. No no no. I was trying to be poetic.”

“It is poetic, but maybe you should just say sailor instead.”

“Okay. I can do that. Anything else?”

Eve hesitated. “Can’t you cheer it up a bit?”

“Cheer it up? Why?”

“Julie, you sound like you don’t believe in love. You’re posting an ad to find love and you’re saying here, quite effectively, that you’re obsessed with things ending and dying. Do you really think that all of life is a shipwreck?”

Julie felt a rush of tears forming. She was so emotional lately, and talking about love did nothing to help her. “Not all of life, just mine.” 

“You’re smart. You’ve got talent. A wicked sense of humor, and, need I say, killer knockers. Your life is not a shipwreck. And I’m sorry to be such a hard-ass with you, but ever since Ronny took off you’ve been swimming in your own misery, and you’re better than that. Now write this down. We’re going to write you a personal ad that really works. That sings. An ad that will bring the man of your dreams to your feet.”

“Fine.” Julie said as she reached down and picked up her personal ad. She liked what she’d written. She didn’t think it was that depressing.

 Eve leaned in.  “Now take this down…”

Bud interrupted from the bar. “How about…Hot Mama Seeks Love Slave And Marriage. That would reel me in.”

Chapter 2 

The only thing she knew how to cook was takeout.

 

            Eve opened the back screen door to Bud’s Bar and barreled through, bringing the cool, crisp smell of leaves with her. Otis Redding was blaring on the jukebox, and Buddy Henderson stood behind the bar counting bottles.

“What?” Eve called. “No applause?” She struck a pose. Bud looked up from the glasses he was cleaning, wiped his hands on his watermelon belly, and gave a slow clap clap clap. With his graying beard, round glasses, and smiling face, he looked a bit like Santa Claus…if Santa Claus wore his hair in a ponytail, greased his handlebar mustache and wore a leather jacket.

“You’re looking good, old man,” Eve said. She leaned over the bar and gave a quick peck to his beard-speckled chin.

Bud sighed. “I tell you, Eve, it’s a real struggle for a looker like me to stay single.”

“Please. You’re still single because you haven’t let anyone know you’re on the market.”

“Ah,” Bud said, shaking his head. “I’ve been on and off the market so many times, I’m just plain tired out. I’ll give it one more try, though, when you’re ready.” He winked at her. “You know who we need to get back on the market?” Bud asked.

“Where is Julie anyway?”

Bud grabbed a beer, cracked it open, and handed it to her. “Where do you think?” He nodded towards the kitchen. “Can’t you smell it?”
            Eve took a deep breath. The bar (which usually smelled of stale beer and smoke) smelled warm, buttery and yummy. “Good God, she’s making bread?”

“She’s been here since last call last night…on her day off no less. And it gets worse. She’s got something in there with little pine trees and garlic.”

“Rosemary,” Eve said. “This is serious. All right if I check it out?”

“Be my guest. But be careful. She was working with chocolate earlier.”

Eve crossed behind the bar and walked through the swinging doors into the kitchen. When Bud opened the bar, he’d made an attempt at offering food, but over the years the menu had shrunk to whatever could be prepared in the deep fryer or microwave. Consequently, he only used one small corner of the kitchen. When Julie came in, he let her have the run of the rest of the place. During slow times in the bar, Julie would prepare warm meals with garlic and wine sauces for her and Bud to munch on. If someone happened to be in the bar, she’d feed them something too.

Eve’s stomach growled. The only thing she knew how to cook was takeout. She tried not to think about eating because she knew that if Julie were cooking up a storm then she was still upset over the breakup. She hoped this time Ronny was gone for good so that Julie could move on. “Julie?” Eve called. “You here, sweets?”

Eve couldn’t believe what she was seeing. The tiny kitchen was stacked with dishes of food: flourless chocolate cake, a steaming casserole of leeks and butternut squash, and a colorful salad with flowers and berries. Julie was slicing a loaf of French bread into thick chunks. “We’re having a little snack,” she said.

“More like a feast. Are you okay?”

Julie didn’t look up from the bread. She buttered one side and began layering the bread with red peppers, kalamata olives, and goat cheese. “Am I okay? No,” she said.

“Put the goat cheese down and come here.” Eve extended her arms; Julie turned around and gave her a hug.

“I hate him, Eve. I’m serious. And I can’t stop going over the whole breakup, and what he said to me. He said he wasn’t the problem, I was. I’m the problem. Can you believe it? So he’s living the life of a rocker with ‘string free romping’. Worst of all…do you know where he’s touring?” Julie didn’t wait for Eve to respond. “The Midwest! Dead-end bars. He’s left me for tight pants and Cincinnati.”

“Shhhh,” Eve said. “It’s okay. You’re going to be fine.”

“Look at this!” Julie handed Eve the most recent postcard. “Cincinnati rocks, cheers, Ronny. That’s all it says. No ‘Wish you were here’ or ‘I’m thinking of you.’ No. He just wants to rub it in that he’s off living this amazing life and I’m still stuck.”

“I’d hardly say a tour of the Midwest in dead-end bars is an amazing life.”

“Oh, it doesn’t matter! He thinks it’s amazing. He thinks it’s a great adventure. He’s having the time of his life! And look at me! I actually look forward to getting another postcard! He was right. He said I was dependable. Old! He said…” Julie pulled away from Eve, and turned to a sandwich the size of a skateboard. “I want to show Ronny that I can suck the marrow with the best of them.” She grabbed a butcher’s knife, and walloped the sandwich, splitting it cleanly in two. “Okay?”
          

 “Okay,” Eve said. “But no need to get violent.”

“I’d like to get violent with Ronny and I have a pretty good idea how.” Julie slid the sandwiches onto a hot griddle, placed a pan on top of them, and turned to Eve. “I call them Poor Man Paninis,” she said and smiled sweetly.

Eve laughed to herself. No matter how sad Julie was, if she was cooking food, she could always pull herself out of it. “It sounds divine,” she said. “Let’s eat, and you can tell me what you want to do to Ronny.”

“I don’t want to do anything to Ronny ever again. What I want is to do something to myself. And I will too.” Julie grabbed two plates, loaded them with French fries and coleslaw, and turned back to the sandwiches. “We’re gonna need some energy for this.”

Eve nodded. “Then I’ll grab this bread here. And this roast. And that cake. And you grab a bottle of wine because I don’t have any hands left to grab with.”

                                   

Chapter 1 

It’s not me. It’s you.

     Julie held the postcard and read it for the hundredth time. On the front was a picture of a pig with wings and a caption that said: “Cincinnati. Home of the Flying Pig Marathon.” On the back, written with a red marker were the words: Cincinnati rocks! Cheers, Ronny.

     This was the fourth postcard she’d received in the two weeks since Ronny had left her. He’d stood in the middle of her bedroom, cheerfully stuffing all of his band clothes into a couple of army duffel bags. She replayed the whole Day of Being Dumped once again, as she did every time she looked at another of his cheap postcards.

     There he stood at the foot of her bed, and there were his army green bags, and there went his clothes. His clothing resembled the costumes of hair-band rockers in the late ‘80s complete with mesh t-shirts and too-tight jeans. “Look, Jules. I’ve got to be honest here,” Ronny said in his thick English accent, thicker perhaps because he was from Detroit and not England. “It’s not me. It’s you. You’re too dependable.”

     “Dependable?” Julie asked. “That’s a bad thing?”

     “Well, yes, actually. If I’m going to be a rock star, I can’t bloody well have a girlfriend. I’ve got to keep open. Be a sex symbol. I’ve got to be more like the lead Singer of Cold Play.”

     “Chris Martin? He’s married.”

     “Yes. Okay.”

     “He and Gwyneth are really happy. And he’s actually super responsible.”

     “But he didn’t start out that way, did he? I mean, he’s a rock star. Purebred. Like me. What I need is some spontaneous string-free romping. You stay home and watch the Food Network and Star Trek. It’s like you’re sleep walking through life or something. I want to tear life apart and suck the marrow from it, you know? And I would too if I weren’t a vegetarian.”

     Julie couldn’t believe this was happening. She’d been dumped before, too many times to count, but they always tried to spare her feelings. True to form, Ronny spared nothing. “I mean, what’s the last really crazy thing you’ve done? Besides take up with the likes of me?” Ronny paused here and Julie realized he was waiting for an answer. She tried to think but she couldn’t come up with anything. Three years ago she’d taken Ronny home with her after his set. It was, truly, the last, first and only spontaneous thing she’d ever done.

     “Look,” he continued as he rifled through the closet and pulled out his studded leather jacket and slipped it on. “It’s a terrific opportunity. We’re touring all of the Midwest including Cincinnati. Can you believe it? Cincinnati! We’ve even got groupies following us.”

     “Meg and Marla?” Julie asked. She hadn’t meant to say anything, she was too numb for that, but the words sort of slipped from her mouth.

     “Yes. Meg and Marla.”

     “They’re not really groupies,” Julie said softly. “They’re your band members’ wives. And they’re in their fifties.”
      

     “What bloody difference does it make?” Ronny’s voice was high-pitched and tight. “I’m leaving, Jules, and that’s all there is to it. Maybe when I’m back, if I’m back, we can try again.”

     “You mean after you get rich and famous?”

     “Yeah. Exactly.”

      Ronny stepped up to her, pulled her in close to him, and kissed her; because she didn’t know what else to do, she kissed him back. “Later, Jules,” he said, and then left.

      Now, just two weeks later, Julie’s apartment was empty of all traces of him, except for her four postcards from the Midwest with notes like “I’m living the vida loca” and “Flint is wilder than I ever dreamed.” And what was she doing? Flipping through her pictures of him, eating cold Indian takeout, and crying. She’d really thought Ronny was The One, or at least tried to convince herself of it. And just when she’d thought she’d gotten over him, she’d get another stupid postcard in the mail reminding her that he was on the road, and she was still stuck in Grand Rapids, Michigan.

     She blew her nose into a tissue and tossed it on top of the pile at the foot of her bed. “It’s not me,” he’d said. “It’s you.” End of story.

     Or was it?

     Julie grabbed her cell phone and speed dialed her best friend, Eve. Dependable, huh? Living her life as if she were asleep? Julie Mills was about to change that.

Blunder Woman Readers, 

You’ve stuck with Chloe through a horrible Kentucky Derby party, her attempt at running a half-marathon, girl fights, a fundraiser under the stars, and numerous digressions. And I can’t thank you enough. A special thanks to all the people who sent me comments, encouraging me to go on. Here are their names, in no particular order. If they give me permission, I’ll write their full names:

Molly Kelly, Denise, Beth, Katy, Renee, Kelly, Diana, Tessa, Bronwyn, Rodger, Brynn, Connie (My Aunt), Pat, Sheila, Missy, Sharon, Jason, Curlista, Randy, Lili, Vicki, Caitlin Eby (my friend and niece), Joe, Anne Bancroft (My mom), Tracey, Brendan. And to Cory Young…the best Turtle Racer on the Planet. 

And to TM Camp who created the site and without whom, I’d never have been able to post anything.

Blunder Woman might be done, but there are other things in the works, including publication of “Easy Does It” my first book. But that’s another story. Literally.

Thanks for reading,

Tanya

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Digression #23 Conversation With Matt

AKA Fodder for Therapy

 

            It’s at this point that I have to take a little digression, not exactly a U-turn or what have you, but a little pause while we go down this misadventure road to tell you about a conversation I had with Matt. I’m doing this, yes, in self-defense because when you analyze what he said to me, how he talked to me, maybe then you can understand why I went out of my head. And when I look back on it, it seems ludicrous that there was no physical intimacy happening. And I mean none. No more lip smacking, hand holding, or naked pubis areas touching. No dry humping either, the kind that I made Ken and Barbie do when I was a girl. We were just friends, with hinted at benefits. With Matt, it was always hinted at. In my defense, I offer this conversation taken word for word (which means pieced together from my splotchy memory) that happened a few days after my meeting with Lisa when everything was still in the planning session.

            I went over to his house, which had returned to its former bachelor appearance, where Matt had a dinner all ready for us, sitting on a table with two candles lit. The curry was still in the takeout containers, but I found this profoundly romantic and not a symbol that he wasn’t taking me serious.

            After curry and chit chat, here’s the meat of our conversation that night that we had while I snuggled in his arms between the commercial breaks of The Daily Show and The Colbert Report:

            Matt: This feels good.

            Me: What?

            Matt: You. Here with me.

            Me: Mmmm.

            Matt: And there’s something I’ve been wanting to talk to you about.

            Me: Yeah?

            Matt: No, don’t look at me. Just look forward. I just want to talk a bit okay? I just want to ask you some hypothetical questions.

            Me: Er, okay.

 

(I have to say at this point I was in deep danger of throwing up our curry dinner because my nerves were going absolutely bonkers.)

 

            Matt: Let’s say you were really good friends with someone and you’d never, say, crossed a line with them physically.

            Me: Yeah?

            Matt: Do you think if you crossed that line that you could still be friends with them?

            (WTF? In Matt-speak I figured out he was asking me if we slept together would it change our relationship. No. It would not. Fuck me now!! Ahem. Sorry for the outburst. I very gently and slowly said the following: )

            Me: If you are very good friends, true friends, real friends, then maybe crossing the line will actually, uhm, enhance your relationship. Maybe you will find something even more wonderful than friendship.

            (Subtext here: Maybe you will find love.)

            (Matt turned my face to look at him then, and then kissed my forehead. It was a wildly chaste gesture.)

            Matt: You’re the coolest girl I know, you know that?

            Me: Yes.

            Then we continued to snuggle until I fell asleep in his arms. An hour later after he’d shaken me asleep, I was in The Beast on the way home dreaming of the time when we’d finally, at long last cross that line. Surely he meant soon. Right?